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Mountain Mental Health Days |
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Martha McNiel, LMFT |
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The sun was warm on my face. Actually, the sun was very, very hot on my face. The sunscreen had melted and mixed with sweat, run down my forehead and was now stinging my eyes. My CoolMedics cooling vest was working hard to do its job. (It was so hot my CoolMedics vest and the ice chest were the only coolness to be found.) |
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But underneath my legs I could feel the happy, relaxed and swinging walk of my Arab gelding. We were in the lead on this trail ride and we were having a good day. Nick is the funnest horse I have ever ridden on a trail ride. Sure-footed on the downhills and a joy to canter on a fire road, he was born to be a trail horse. And he was glad to be out today. |
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Trail rides with friends are a great way to clear your mind. |
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Pairs of yellow and black tiger swallowtails fluttered by on the breeze. Black and white magpies chattered noisily in the trees, scolding each other as they flew from branch to branch. A handsome coyote stared back at us when we met on the trail. What a great day to be alive!
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The day had begun when the warm (uh, hot!) sun woke me up inside my tent. The choice was to be baked alive in the tent or get up and get out. The friends I was camping with had gathered in the shade of a horse trailer and were enjoying a leisurely cup of coffee.
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While we ate breakfast, a hard-working red-headed woodpecker brought food to her babies, who peeked out from the hole in the sprawling oak tree, eagerly awaiting her return. A family of young ground squirrels rolled happily in a playful shower of dust. Two tiny yellow-rumped warblers gracefully hunted bugs nearby. The horses munched on their hay in the corral nearby. |
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I had come out for a week-end of horse camping with friends because I needed a break. I needed some mental health days. The mountains where we were camping are close to my home. But far enough away from home to exhale and take a momentary breather from the stressful realities of day to day life. |
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This is horse camping! I was out for the week-end with friends from an equestrian club that I belong to. During the night I had slept well. I left the cares of the office and the worries of the world back in civilization. Out here, cell phones do not work. I figure if a person is beyond the reach of a cell phone, they are also beyond the reach of worries. My Thermarest pad provided an excellent night's sleep, except when a pack of hunting coyotes started yammering about 4:40 a.m.
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The horses were behaving themselves in a large communal corral and all were eating and drinking well, despite the over-one hundred degree heat. I could peak out the window of my tent and check on the horses. |
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Like any adventure, there were a few glitches. On the way into the park one of the trucks overheated in a showering geyser of boiling water. (That would be my truck.) And one of the horses took exception to wanting to be saddled and seriously misbehaved. (That would be my horse - the one I confessed to wanting to sell in my first column.) It was between 95-105 degrees most of every day. And while picking up a water bucket, I came face to face with the very largest black widow spider I have ever seen. It was an enormous, absolutely humongous, shiny black widow. Did I mention that this was a BIG spider? I am sad to say this particular spider is no longer with us. |
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There's nothing like camping with your horse and good friends. |
Photo by Julie Green |
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I had come out for a week-end of horse camping with friends because I needed a break. I needed some mental health days. The mountains where we were camping are close to my home. But far enough away from home to exhale and take a momentary breather from the stressful realities of day to day life. I could momentarily forget the stresses of work. I could forget the bills at home, waiting to be paid. And I could enjoy the challenging horse I love so much and the friends who had come with me. |
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And you know what I discovered? I was not the only person who had come to the mountains for some mental health rest and relaxation. Our campsite was on a fire road that joined several popular trails. All day long (and part of the night), mountains bikers slowly toiled up the road or whizzed down it in a blur of speed.
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For the poor mountain bikers toiling up the hill in the baking sun, our grove of trees offered welcome shade. As a group, we were well-prepared for the hot weather and had enough bottled water for a small army. We offered cold water to every mountain biker who passed by. Many stopped to rest and chat with us. I felt rather like Lucy - the lemonade stand psychologist in the Peanuts cartoon. She Doctor Is In - 5 cents. |
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I don't know the names of any of the bikers we met this week-end. But together we enjoyed the beauty of nature and the healing power of the mountains. There were the two men who have been fishing together several times a year for many years. They fish until well after dark, then whiz down the mountain road in the dim glow of their headlights. There was the grandfather complaining because he had to stop and wait for the younger folk to catch up on such a hot day. |
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One of our guests was a woman in the midst of a career change, who had come to the mountains to try to gain clarity and perspective as she considered what to do with her vocational life. Another biker was facing major surgery in two weeks and she had come to the park for one last bike ride. As we shared a cold watermelon (chilled in the horse's watering trough), she said, "I am such a private person! I cannot believe I come up here to the mountains and tell total strangers I am having surgery." We sincerely wished our new friend good health and a speedy recovery. |
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The body language says it all. Horse owners monitor the herd as new horses get to know each other while camping. |
Photo by Julie Green |
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That's what horse camping and mountains can do for you. The mountains can clear away the sticky cobwebs of modern life. Like a black widow's sticky web, worries can stick to you and bring you down. Getting away from it all with good friends, a good horse and really good food can breathe new life into a weary soul. |
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As we sat out under the stars on a warm summer's night (did I already mention it was a WARM summer's night?), we looked into the heavens. We compared constellations and satellites and stars and planets. Looking into the night sky can certainly re-focus one's perspective. If you think your troubles are big, I suggest you go outside on a dark summer night and look at the heavens. |
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And if you really want to enjoy your horse, take him camping with you. As you explore new trails and meet new friends (mainly coyotes and squirrels), you will appreciate him in a whole new way. |
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If you need a fresh perspective or a renewing of your faith, I suggest you find a couple of friends and go horse camping. Head to the hills or the mountains or the beach. Enjoy the natural world around you and let your worries go. Give your faith a chance to be heard and your mind a chance to rest. A few wonderful days of horse camping and your load will be lightened and your spirit renewed. |
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Martha C. McNiel is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a NARHA Registered Therapeutic Riding Instructor. She is the Founder and Director of DreamPower Horsemanship, a therapeutic horsemanship program serving children and adults with mental, emotional and behavioral problems. She is a professional member of the North American Riding for the Handicapped Association (NARHA), the Equine Facilitated Mental Health Association (EFMHA) and the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT). She can be reached at dreampowerhorsemanship@hotmail.com. Her website is www.dreampowerhorsemanship.com. |
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Copyright © 2006 All rights reserved. The above article is the property of the Author and may not be duplicated or redistributed in any way without permission. |
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